Feel like your love is… ‘getting old’? Spice up your love life by following a few if not all of the following tips for a sexy relationship.
Who says that being amazing in bed is about flexibility and being able to do all those Kama Sutra contortions? No, there is a lot more to it than that. We all know sex and lust are connected, so how does lust start? It starts by desiring to be with someone you like. So you need to like what you see. At the same time, you want your partner to like you and desire you in the same way, because sex is a lot more than going through the motions, so to speak... It is about sharing with and giving a part of yourself to your partner. Ladies, let us get past the teenage taboos that sex is bad. It isn’t bad - it is a natural experience and it is up to us to make it awesome. Not to mention that it is probably the best way to work out. It has been scientifically confirmed that a 23-minute quick romp in the sack helps you torch more calories (about 88 if you’re overweight) than running 100 meters flat, and let’s admit it, it’s more pleasurable. Read on and see how you can amaze your partner!
Feel sexy, act sexy!
Before you jump into bed, put on your best negligee. And if you really want to kick it up a notch, take a few pole dancing classes! It will blow your beloved away. Remember, arousal starts with the eyes, the better you look the better you will feel about yourself and the better the sex will be! Making love is not just an automatic act, it takes two to tango. So if you feel uncomfortable about yourself, your partner will notice it immediately and it will also impact your act as such. In short, bad sex does not necessarily mean inability; bad sex is about the negative vibes that surround you. Whereas if you feel sexy, you’re more likely to enjoy yourself and will love that your other half gets to see the sexy you.
Don’t be afraid to speak your mind. Let your partner know what your fantasies are and experiment! Everything is possible. Who says sex should only be in bed? If you like kinky stuff, go for it. It can happen anywhere, in the kitchen, in the garage while they’re fixing the car, or even in the garden tool shed. If you love and desire your partner so much, let them know! They won’t say ‘No’.
A heavenly sexual experience starts with good foreplay. Although women tend to appreciate it more, it does not mean that men don’t care about it at all.
Sexy lingerie and costumes can spark some fun as well. Your partner will take their time taking that off since you look so amazing in it.
If you need something ‘spicier’, play an adult movie lasting more than twenty minutes, slip off your clothes and sneak under the duvet while watching it. You will be engaging in foreplay before you know it! To jump it up a kinkier notch, a full-length mirror in front of or above your bed will make your exciting experience unforgettable.
To complete your hanky panky, sex in the shower or a relaxing dip in the jacuzzi will bring just about enough of the kinky touch you both longed for. If it’s summer, don’t hesitate for a minute to go for a skinny dip.
Passion is a flicky thing. Don’t be shy and spice up your sex life whenever you feel it becomes too much about the to and fro. Because love is a game of trust and communication is key, open up to your partner and share with him your most secret desires. Let the sexual you take the lead. You will become his or her fantasy within milliseconds (if you’re not already).
To sweeten your sex life, bring food into bed. Nothing compares to whipped cream, chocolate syrup or honey. It will do the trick.
Stay sexy outside of bed
You can be sexy outside of bed too. After all, life is meant to be lived not over-sexed up. Be witty, smart and dress up. It will make your partner want you even more. Show them you care, be supportive when they need comfort after a rough day at work. Even if they’re not anatomically designed in the same way as you are, they like to laugh at a good joke and feel loved and appreciated just as much as you do.
And don’t forget to kiss, kiss, kiss! After some time away from each other, don’t hesitate to throw your arms around each other and give your partner a sensual kiss.
Bond with family and friends
Because there’s more to ‘going steady’ than just who’s making tea in the morning, getting to know your partner’s family and friends is essential. Once you learn when to zip it and when to speak your mind, the test is passed and the battle for their heart won. Organize a garden party and invite them over. It will make your partner feel at home with you.
If your partner has children from a previous relationship, try to win them over, but know your place. Be friendly, buy them something nice for the holidays and their birthdays, but don’t be ostentatious. Let it grow slowly. You’ll all love it!
Now that you have a few hot tips for refreshing your relationship in the New Year, get to it! And keep tuning in for health tips for your WHOLE lifestyle!